June 5, 2009

Alimony Kills Her Real Potential

Alimony Kills Her Real Potential

Indian Girls are born here but made elsewhere because in India it is believed legally that women are dependent and inferior. Thought they had voting rights right from the beginning as compared to the western world yet the capable lot is swayed by the thinking of being under privileged inspite of a lady ruling the country for 17 yrs (Indira Gandhi) and now as a president (Pratibha Patil).

The courts award alimony and encourage their belief of being handicapped. But the fact is that today they are ruling the work place and are better office makers too. If these women were pampered to believe that they are weak they would have never made it big and ya some of them could because they were abroad away from the Indian victim mindset. Infact in India most Parents encourage the girl child to be on self but the indian courts and some groups do not.

Right now randomly I can think of some names of dynamic Indian women …

1) Kalpana Chawla (Astronaut)
2) Suneeta Williams (Astronaut)
3) Kiran Bedi (Needs no Introduction)
4) Arundhati Roy (Novelist)
5) Chanda Kochar (ICICI Chief)
6) Renuka Ramanathan (ICICI Venture Chief)
7) Kalpana Morparia (J P Morgan; Chief - India Operations)
8) Kiran Mazumdar Shaw (C MD – Biocon)
9) Mira Nair (Director)
10) Shabana Azmi (Actress)
11) Indra Nooyi (CEO and Chairperson Pepsi)
12) Ekta Kapoor (Creative Head - Balaji Telefilms)

Then why can't any other indian woman who is estranged from her husband and also is ambitious to make it big in life and profession do it? Why are such women awarded alimony before they could rise up? By giving this facility we are killing the real potential in that lady.

They too have the potential, this could be best explained by the below given content (This data is slightly old showing indra nooyi as CFO)

Indian Men V/s Indian Women
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Shah Rukh Khan – Actor
Earning Rs.247 per minute

Brij Mohan Lall Munjal – Chairman
Earning Rs.255 per minute

Amitabh Bachchan – Actor
Earning Rs.361 per minute

Mukesh Ambani – Chairman
Earning Rs.413 per minute

Sachin Tendulkar – Cricketer
Earning Rs. 1,163 per minute
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Indra Nooyi – CFO
Earning Rs. 2911 per minute
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A lady earns higher than a man in India.
So, do not award Alimony (SOWRY) to the Indian women, award her a job that could unleash her potential. Do not kill the potential of an Indian women by rendering her Abla or Helpless and dependent or weak just because she believes so or it is legal. Abort the practice of life time alimony for the new generation divorced women. Gift her the real freedom from her husband. Let the husband sponsor her 1 time basic qualification needs or find her a job. Let her not beg as a legal right.Let us not Kill her Real Potential.

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